HOW RAR WORKS
One respectful opportunity to reconnect. What happens next is up to both of you.
Begin Your Request
YOU
REFLECT
SUBMIT
RAR
CONTACTS THEM
THEY CHOOSE
THEIR DECISION
Before you reach out, RAR asks you to slow down and reflect.
Our Reconnection Request Form asks meaningful questions about what happened, what you’ve learned, why you want to reconnect, and what you hope to say.
“What do you believe went wrong?”
“What have you changed?”
“Why do you want to reconnect now?”
“Are you prepared to respect their decision?”
Your plan determines how quickly RAR will attempt to contact the recipient.
PATIENT
[RAR RECOMMENDED]
$50
Within 2 months
CONSIDERED
$200
Within 1 month
PRIORITY
$600
Within 2 weeks
EXPRESS
$1,200
Within 1 week
Paying more only changes the delivery timeframe. It does not increase your chances of receiving a response.
RAR reviews requests before attempting delivery. We may reject requests involving harassment, threats, stalking, coercion, repeated unwanted contact, or attempts to bypass someone’s explicit refusal to communicate.
THE MOMENT THAT MATTERS
RAR contacts the recipient through our official Telegram account.
The recipient is clearly told who we are, why we’re contacting them, and that they are completely free to say no.
No pressure. No obligation. No repeated chasing.
R
Reconcile & Reunite (RAR)
Hi [Name]. This is Reconcile and Reunite (RAR).
Someone has submitted a request asking us to facilitate an opportunity for you to reconnect.
Would you be open to hearing their message?
I’d like to hear their message
I don’t want to communicate
HEAR IT
They choose to hear the message.
TAKE TIME
They can take time before deciding whether to continue.
SAY NO
They can decline, and RAR will respect their decision.
Hearing a message does not mean agreeing to reconnect. The recipient remains in control of what happens next.
They respond
RAR can facilitate the next step.
They need time
We give them space.
They decline
We respect the decision and do not continue pursuing them.
THE RAR PROMISE
RAR can create an opportunity for two people to communicate. We cannot control what another person feels, whether they respond, or what happens afterward. We promise to respect both sides.
Will the recipient know who sent the request?
How will RAR contact them?
What if they don’t respond?
What if they say no?
Can I submit another request?
Does paying more increase my chances?
What happens if the recipient needs time?
Does RAR guarantee reconciliation?
Take a moment. Reflect honestly. If you’re ready, we’ll handle the rest of the first step.
Begin Your Request